It's a small world, after all!
.......reflecting on the similarities between my worlds....
realizing East Africa and the USA have more things in common than you might think.
A long time ago......I was in college and a singer named "Sting" came out with a song, called, "Russians".
"In Europe and America there's a growing feeling of hysteria.
Conditioned to respond to all the threatsIn the rhetorical speeches of the Soviets.
MIster Krushchev said, "We will bury you."
I don't subscribe to this point of view.
It'd be such an ignorant thing to do
If the Russians love their children too.
How can I save my little boy from Oppenheimer's deadly toy?
There is no monopoly on common sense
On either side of the political fence.
We share the same biology, regardless of ideology.
Believe me when I say to you,
I hope the Russians love their children too
There is no historical precedent
To put the words in the mouth of the president?
There's no such thing as a winnable war,
It's a lie we don't believe anymore.
Mister Reagan says, "We will protect you."
I don't subscribe to this point of view.
Believe me when I say to you,
I hope the Russians love their children too
We share the same biology, regardless of ideology.
But what might save us, me and you,
Is if the Russians love their children too"
To put the words in the mouth of the president?
There's no such thing as a winnable war,
It's a lie we don't believe anymore.
Mister Reagan says, "We will protect you."
I don't subscribe to this point of view.
Believe me when I say to you,
I hope the Russians love their children too
We share the same biology, regardless of ideology.
But what might save us, me and you,
Is if the Russians love their children too"
Probably, it wasn't the most profound song in the world, but in the 1980s, when we were all so scared of having a nuclear war with Russia.....this song made me think, and it made me calm down. The concept that maybe those "boogie men" way over in Russia might just actually be real people, just like us, people who might love their children, too.....helped me to realize that perhaps they didn't want a nuclear war any more than we did.
Now, I find myself thinking in the same way about my two worlds, East Africa and the USA - 8,000 miles apart, and seemingly so very different from one another - but turns out, we're all just people, and we have so much more in common than someone might think at first glance (for good and for bad).
Below are just a few of the similarities I've noticed this week:
1. Election Riots:
Bus burning during Kenya's 2007 election violence |
First, the recent US election. So, so, so sad. Watching news from home in dismay, I felt I was listening to a BBC broadcast about an election here in East Africa - Burundi, Uganda, Kenya, DRC, Rwanda....
Car burning in streets during 2016 USA election violence |
2. Children love puppies:
Deste has "come a long way, baby" regarding his dog fears, as you can see from these pics. Tim and I felt we were too old, too tired, too stretched-thin to add another puppy to our lives, and yet, we knew no other way to help Deste overcome his rather extreme phobia, which has actually interfered with his day to day life here. For instance, he won't go to friends' houses, even best friends, ever, because they have dogs. So far, Deste's love for "Louie" hasn't translated into a lack of fear for all dogs, but we are hoping it will. His friends with dogs really want him to come play at their houses, instead of always having to come to ours!
3. Parents love their children, and will "go without" to help them.
We hear all the time, or we experience first hand, the lengths to which an American parent will go for his or her child. Sacrificing retirement to pay for college, going without that last piece of pie at Thanksgiving, staying up all night with a sick child, helping with science fair projects, etc. Well, the same can be said for parents over here.
- Because little Paul often has seizures in the night, the family was instructed to procure a mattress of some kind on which he could sleep, rather than sleeping on the cement floor with the rest of the family in their 9' by 10', one room house (with no electricity or running water).
- For his bones to harden (another problem), he must take calcium supplements each day and also must drink 3 glasses of milk. No cow. No milk-goat. No money for milk nor medicine.
Seeing this list, and seeing the Dad obviously wasn't eating much at all each day, either -- I looked about my house and realized, although we live on maybe 10% of what we lived on when we lived in America - that we own and enjoy an exponentially larger amount of goods than do our neighbors here. Ashamed and disgusted with our over-consumption (we sometimes end up throwing out food that goes bad before we can eat the leftovers, for instance) - - I realized we had an extra mattress in our home that we keep ready for slumber parties for our teens. Yet, it hardly ever is needed. An epileptic child is sleeping on a cement floor, and we have a mattress tucked away in a closet that is only used about 3 times a year?
Paul (facial features deleted to protect privacy) |
Paul, Silas and their family. |
I wish I could share my beautiful adopted land with my beloved American friends. I am blessed to get to have the best of both worlds......to have lived on both sides of the "pond", as they say. Parents love their children in countries all over this world, and children love puppies in many countries, too -- and we all have fears, sometimes irrational, terrifying fears -- that sometimes love and hugs from a furry friend can dispel. Maybe even more than realizing that East Africans and Americans all love their children, too, maybe we can hope or realize that both sides of America include millions of parents who "love their children, too". We are all wanting to take care of our children, right? Here's hoping we can all (me included!) learn to love one another, to hear one another, and to give grace to all we meet, as Jesus gives so much love and grace to us.
You write from the heart. XOXO - Annette aka Abba's Girl
ReplyDeleteBeautifully said.... I have the opportunity to work all over the world and it has changed me forever. The freedoms and the conveniences we have in the US are unknown to so many of my friends from other lands and yet they always open up their hearts and homes to me. I am blessed!
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